Therapist Identifies Overlooked Signs of Depression in Men, Challenging Traditional Perceptions
Scott Mallon, a licensed marriage and family therapist, highlights that depression in men often presents differently than commonly perceived, leading to missed diagnoses. Instead of overt sadness or an inability to function, men's depression frequently manifests as irritability, emotional distance, exhaustion, loss of motivation, feeling numb, and a sense of disconnection from life. Mallon notes that men often don't recognize these as symptoms of depression, attributing them to stress or a bad mood. He explains that societal expectations for men to be providers, protectors, achievers, and resilient can lead them to internalize struggles, making it difficult to seek help. Research from the Journal of Advanced Nursing and Frontiers in Psychiatry supports that traditional masculine norms, such as stoicism and self-reliance, reduce the likelihood of men seeking support for mental health issues. Mallon emphasizes that anger often replaces sadness in men because it is one of the few emotions they are culturally ...