Pyaar Dosti Hai: A Timeless Mantra
The film’s central theme, “Pyaar dosti hai” (Love is friendship), became a cultural phenomenon. It was a simple, yet revolutionary, concept for its time that resonated deeply with the youth of the late '90s. This idea, that the strongest romantic bonds
are built on a foundation of genuine friendship, is a core reason for its enduring appeal. The emotional journey of Rahul (Shah Rukh Khan), Anjali (Kajol), and Tina (Rani Mukerji) created an unforgettable love triangle that tugged at heartstrings. The story of love, loss, and second chances, orchestrated by Rahul's young daughter, gave the film an emotional depth that continues to connect with viewers, making it more than just a college romance.
An Album for the Ages
A significant part of the film's lasting magic lies in its soundtrack. Composed by Jatin-Lalit, the album was the highest-selling of 1998 and its songs have become anthems of love and friendship. Tracks like the title song, “Koi Mil Gaya,” and “Yeh Ladka Hai Deewana” are instantly recognizable and remain staples on playlists and radio stations today. The music is not just background noise; it is woven into the narrative, amplifying every emotional high and low. For many, the songs themselves are a gateway to nostalgia, evoking memories of the film's most iconic scenes, from the college festival dance-off to the rain-soaked reunion.
The Streaming Effect and a New Generation
The transition from television reruns to on-demand streaming on platforms like Netflix has been crucial to the film's continued relevance. It allows original fans to rewatch it anytime, while introducing it to a new, younger audience. According to actress Kajol, there has been a revival of interest in '90s films among Gen Z, who are now discovering classics like 'Kuch Kuch Hota Hai'. These younger viewers are drawn to the passionate and romanticised storytelling of that era. While they may critique its outdated elements online, they are also vibing to the songs and getting swept up in the emotion, ensuring the film's presence in contemporary pop culture conversations.
A Modern Look at Problematic Tropes
Part of what keeps 'Kuch Kuch Hota Hai' relevant is the ongoing discussion around its more dated aspects. Modern audiences and critics often point out the film's sexist undertones, particularly the idea that Anjali had to abandon her tomboyish style and adopt a more traditionally feminine look to be seen as desirable by Rahul. Even director Karan Johar has publicly acknowledged these criticisms, calling the film “politically incorrect” and admitting its portrayal of gender roles was flawed. This critical re-examination doesn't necessarily diminish the film's appeal. Instead, it adds another layer to its legacy, allowing viewers to appreciate it as a product of its time while also analysing its cultural shortcomings.
An Unforgettable Style Statement
Beyond its story and music, 'Kuch Kuch Hota Hai' was a visual trendsetter. The film brought a new, aspirational aesthetic to Bollywood, heavily influenced by Western brands and fashion. Rahul's GAP sweatshirts, Anjali’s sporty tracksuits and headbands, and Tina’s chic mini-dresses defined college fashion for a generation. This carefully curated style created a fantasy version of college life that was incredibly appealing. The film’s look was so iconic that it continues to inspire fashion trends and nostalgia, cementing its place not just as a romantic classic, but as a cultural touchstone that defined an era.
