Grounding in Early Struggles
Anupam Kher's journey in the film industry began with immense hardship, arriving in Mumbai in 1981 with a mere Rs 37. This foundational experience of sleeping
on railway platforms before his breakthrough with 'Saaransh' in 1984 has instilled in him a deep sense of perspective. He often reflects on this period when contemplating failure, realizing that compared to his initial destitution, most life challenges feel manageable. This outlook, he explains, significantly simplifies his approach to life, emphasizing that complexity often arises from our own unnecessary desires rather than inherent difficulties. His numerous accolades, including multiple National and Filmfare awards, an acting school, and international recognition, have not diminished this fundamental understanding of life's true simplicity.
Prioritizing Success Over Wealth
For the last ten years, Anupam Kher has intentionally resided in a rented house in Mumbai, a decision rooted in his personal philosophy rather than financial constraints. His ambition has always been directed towards achieving excellence as an actor, aiming to be remembered for his craft rather than merely accumulating wealth. He candidly states that if wealth were his primary pursuit, his lifestyle choices would reflect a very different prioritization. Around a decade ago, Kher consciously decided against owning more property, even selling a house that was subsequently purchased by Alia Bhatt. He and his wife, Kiran, took four years to find a suitable place, but upon her shifting to Chandigarh after becoming an MP, Kher questioned the intense search. This led them to embrace a simpler way of living, believing that society often overvalues material possessions, overlooking the profound fulfillment that a less materialistic existence can offer. Living in a rented space serves as a deliberate strategy to maintain humility and avoid the complications that can accompany extensive property ownership.
Fulfilling Mother's Wish
While Anupam Kher chose a life of rented accommodation for himself, he was deeply motivated to fulfill a significant wish of his mother. Following his father's passing, he inquired about her desires, and she expressed a long-held wish to own a home in Shimla, having lived in rented premises for nearly six decades. Kher readily honored this aspiration, purchasing a house for her in Shimla. Although she initially mentioned wanting a smaller dwelling, he ensured she received a more spacious home. He fondly notes that his mother, true to her simple nature, still prefers minimal use of the house, primarily visiting during the summer months. This act underscores Kher's understanding that while he might opt for a less possessions-heavy life, he also recognizes the deep emotional value of fulfilling cherished family dreams.
Lessons from Adversity
Anupam Kher shares valuable life lessons, highlighting that the distinction between ordinary and extraordinary achievement lies in dedicating that 'little extra' effort. However, he also cautions against becoming consumed by the relentless pursuit of success, suggesting that success itself can foster a cycle of wanting more without imparting significant self-awareness. In contrast, Kher posits that failure plays a far more crucial role in personal development. It compels individuals to adapt, grow, and rediscover their purpose. He illustrates this by noting the perpetual desire for more wealth—moving from Rs 10 crore to Rs 20 crore and beyond. Failure, on the other hand, is a powerful catalyst for creativity and innovation. While acknowledging that moments of self-pity can occur, he emphasizes finding joy in living again, as people often forget the fundamental art of truly experiencing life. He concludes that life's essence remains simple, regardless of one's location or success level, advocating for an embrace of simplicity as one attains more, having already secured the essentials.
