What is the story about?
Japan just feels different. Organised, peaceful, and full of quiet respect — it’s the sort of place where the little things matter. If you’re heading there,
you don’t need to memorise every custom. But picking up a few basics makes your trip smoother. Locals notice and appreciate small gestures. Here’s what you want to know.
Greetings Are Polite and Subtle
People don’t go in for big handshakes or hugs. Instead, you’ll see bowing everywhere — but don’t stress. As a visitor, just nod your head politely. That’s enough. Personal space matters, so don’t crowd people. A soft smile and a quick 'Arigatou' (thank you) go a long way.
Shoes Off
Taking your shoes off isn’t optional in a lot of places. You’ll need to do it at homes, temples, ryokans (traditional inns), and some restaurants. Usually, you’ll see a spot to leave your shoes and indoor slippers waiting for you. Toilets often have their own slippers too. Just remember to change back into your regular slippers when you step out.
Quiet Is Appreciated in Public Spaces
Even in Tokyo’s busiest spots, things stay surprisingly quiet. On trains and buses, no one chats loudly or takes phone calls. If you’re with friends, keep your voice down. This calm atmosphere is considered respectful and helps everyone share the space comfortably.Eating Etiquette Matters
Eating in Japan comes with its own set of unspoken rules. Slurping noodles is actually okay — it shows you’re enjoying the food. Walking around while eating? Not so much, especially in cities. If you’re using chopsticks, don’t stick them upright in your rice or pass food from one set of chopsticks to another — those are tied to funeral rituals and best avoided. When in doubt, simply watch locals and follow their lead.
Cash, Tipping, and Paying the Right Way
Japan is a cash-friendly country, so it is best to carry some yen. Big stores might take cards, but smaller shops and restaurants expect cash. Tipping is not part of Japanese culture and can even feel awkward. Good service is standard and doesn’t need extra reward. When you pay, drop your money in the small tray provided instead of handing it over.Respect for Cleanliness and Rules
Japan takes cleanliness seriously. Even though you’ll barely find any trash cans, the streets are always clean. People usually carry their garbage home. Smoking only happens in designated areas, and people follow the rules — even the small ones, like waiting for the light to cross the street. It’s all about respecting the space and the people around you.
