The Core Conflict: Soften or Define?
The fundamental reason for all the mixed messages comes down to two different philosophies: softening versus defining. For years, the primary goal of contouring a square face was to create the illusion of a more oval shape. This involves using shadow
to visually round out and soften the distinct angles of a strong jawline and broad forehead. However, a more modern approach has gained traction, one that celebrates and enhances the existing bone structure rather than trying to change it. This school of thought focuses on using contour to make those strong features pop, creating a chiseled, architectural look. The disagreement, therefore, isn't about a single correct technique, but about the desired aesthetic outcome.
Camp 1: The Art of Softening Angles
The traditional “softening” technique is what most guides, from makeup artists like Charlotte Tilbury to brands such as Jane Iredale, have long recommended. This method involves applying a contour shade along the perimeter of the face, specifically at the temples and along the sides of the jawline. By placing shadows in these areas, you create the illusion that they are receding, which makes the face appear less angular and more rounded. The highlight is then focused on the center of the face—the middle of the forehead, down the bridge of the nose, and on the chin—to draw attention inward and create an impression of length. The key here is seamless blending to avoid any harsh, visible lines that would defeat the purpose of creating a softer look.
Camp 2: Celebrating Structure with Definition
The second camp argues that trying to completely alter your face shape is an outdated concept. Instead, these artists champion using contour to celebrate the natural strength and beauty of a square face. With this approach, the focus shifts away from the jawline and forehead. Instead, contour is applied primarily in the hollows of the cheeks, starting near the ear and blending upward. This technique lifts and defines the cheekbones, making them the star of the show. The strong jawline is seen as a feature to be proud of, not one to be hidden. This method is less about correction and more about enhancement, using makeup to play up the sharp, striking features you already possess.
Why Product and Placement Are Everything
Part of the debate also stems from the evolution of products and application. The heavy, striped contour of early social media tutorials often looked harsh and unnatural in real life, leading some artists to reject the techniques associated with it. A poorly blended powder contour meant to soften a jawline could easily look muddy or dirty. Modern cream contours, however, blend into the skin for a more natural, shadow-like effect, making the softening technique more achievable for everyday wear. Ultimately, artists agree that the product choice—cool-toned creams for subtle shadow, for instance—and precise, well-blended placement are more important than the specific map you follow.
The Real Answer: Your Face Is Unique
Here’s the secret: no two square faces are exactly alike. This is where true artistry supersedes rigid rules. A makeup artist will consider not just the general shape of your face, but your individual features. Do you have high cheekbones you want to show off? A shorter forehead? The best technique for you might be a hybrid of both philosophies. You might choose to lightly soften the corners of your jawline while adding a sharp, defining contour to your cheekbones. The disagreement among artists is often a public debate over generalities, but in practice, the best application is always a personalized one.











