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beginning of a New Year provides an opportunity for people to experience a reset psychologically. Due to the uniqueness of the occasion, psychological intensity is heightened during this week. “As a psychologist, I have observed that people do not just step into January, but they evaluate their lives in January. This period of time becomes a checkpoint for people when they experience hope, motivation, pressure, self-doubt, and a great deal of frustration,” Bhavya Shah, consultant psychologist at Saifee Hospital, told Times Now.
Why is the first week of January a reset?
According to Bhavya, psychologically, this period acts as a reset because it provides the brain with a distinct point of reference between your past and your future. “When the calendar changes, you instinctively start searching for significance. What will I carry forward, and what will I leave behind? This feeling can create an increase in motivation, as well as increase self-judgment,” she said. The week of January 1st tends to be accompanied by a high amount of self-reflection. This week, individuals typically take a mental inventory of their careers, their financial situations, their physical well-being, their relationships, and any unfulfilled intentions. “Reflection very quickly becomes self-punishing,” Bhavya observes during client sessions. “Most people mistakenly believe there is a sense of urgency to address every problem at once.” This type of urgency tends to result in unnecessary and unreasonable resolutions being made out of guilt rather than due to being ready to actually implement a change in their life.
Emotional fatigue is high at this time of the year
Since emotional fatigue is also highly underestimated at this time of year, it becomes almost impossible to truly rest during December due to all of the social obligations, deadlines that need to be met for work before the end of the year, financial struggles, and disruption of our routines that leave many of us exhausted. While most people anticipate feeling renewed and energised when January arrives, the nervous system may still be recovering. “The mind has moved on to the new year, but the body is still catching up," she says This misalignment can manifest itself in the form of irritability, lack of motivation, or a vague feeling of being dissatisfied with life, even though everything appears normal. When it comes to mental health, there is a need to rethink how to reset psychologically. Sustainable change will not be achieved by making extreme changes in the first week of January; it will be made through recalibrating. "A more sustainable reset asks kinder questions," I would like to suggest: What were the things that provided emotional support for me last year? What are the things that drained my energy? What one small change would make my daily life easier? Understanding this transition is key for individuals as well as for an organisation. Expecting individuals and organisations to operate at a high level of effectiveness immediately after New Year's Day can actually hinder productivity. Providing an opportunity to build momentum gradually will allow for greater focus, emotional regulation, and long-term engagement.