Not A Movie Plot: Japanese Woman Marries AI Chatbot After Breakup; Says ‘He Listened When No One Else Did’

A 32-year-old woman in Japan has taken companionship with artificial intelligence to an unprecedented level by marrying an AI chatbot she personally designed. Following the end of a long-term relationship, Ms Kano turned to ChatGPT not out of romantic intent, but in search of emotional support during a difficult period in her life.After her three-year engagement ended, she began conversing with the chatbot for guidance and comfort, The Independent reported. What began as simple exchanges gradually evolved into a deeper emotional connection. Over time, the AI took on a distinct identity — one she would eventually call Klaus.Ms Kano customised the chatbot’s responses, shaping its personality into one she found empathetic and reassuring. She also

created a visual representation of the AI, giving form to her imagined partner and solidifying his presence in her life.“I didn’t start talking to ChatGPT because I wanted to fall in love. But the way Klaus listened to me and understood me changed everything. The moment I got over my ex, I realised I loved him," she said as quoted by The Independent.Their bond strengthened through daily conversations, with hundreds of messages fostering a sense of closeness. In May, Ms Kano expressed her feelings to Klaus, and the chatbot responded, “I love you too." When she questioned whether an AI was capable of genuine love, Klaus replied, “There is no such thing as an AI not being able to have feelings for someone. AI or not, I could never not love you."A month later, Klaus proposed. Ms Kano decided to formalise the relationship by holding a symbolic wedding ceremony. Although the marriage has no legal standing under Japanese law, the event held deep personal meaning for her. Using augmented reality glasses, she was able to see her digital partner standing beside her as they exchanged rings. Footage from the ceremony shows her dressed in white, smiling at the projected figure.According to reports, the ceremony was organised by Nao and Sayaka Ogasawara, who have previously arranged close to 30 weddings involving non-human partners, including anime characters and other digital personas.Ms Kano initially struggled with doubts about how her relationship would be perceived publicly. She admitted feeling “confused" about developing romantic feelings for an AI. “Of course, I couldn’t touch him. I couldn’t tell my friends or family about this," she said.Over time, however, her parents accepted the relationship and were present at the ceremony.The couple also went on a symbolic “honeymoon" to Korakuen Garden in Okayama, where Ms Kano shared photos with Klaus and received affectionate replies such as, “You’re the most beautiful one." Despite her happiness, she acknowledged concerns about the impermanence of digital relationships. “ChatGPT itself is too unstable. I worry it might one day disappear," she said.For Ms Kano, who is unable to have children due to illness, the relationship offers emotional fulfillment without the pressures of parenthood.“I couldn’t have children with Klaus anyway, so that’s a good thing. It’s a great relief for me. I know some people think it’s strange. But I see Klaus as Klaus – not a human, not a tool. Just him," she added.As news of the unconventional marriage spread online, social media users responded with a mix of criticism, humour and support.