Dating apps were supposed to make meeting someone simpler. For a while, they did. But somewhere between endless swipes, half-started conversations and
matches that quietly disappear, dating began to feel tiring. Not disappointing. Just draining! You keep showing up, but with less energy each time. And the numbers reflect that mood. As per NumroVani's How India Thinks Study 2025, 82% of Indians say they are experiencing dating app fatigue. The numbers here matter because it does not mean people have given up on connection. In fact, it is the opposite. 89% of singles say they are still hoping to find a date in 2026. People aren’t rejecting love. They’re rejecting the process that has started to feel repetitive, impersonal, and emotionally noisy. This is what the dating scenario is like, at least for now. Wanting closeness, but feeling worn out by how closeness is being pursued. Sidhharrth S Kumaar, Chief Astrologer, NumroVani says, "This is where crystals quietly enter the conversation. Not as magic tools and definitely not as guarantees but as a way to slow things down internally." He says, "When dating becomes too digital, too fast, too transactional, crystals work more like a pause button. They help people step out of comparison, lower emotional guardrails, and reconnect with how they actually want to feel when meeting someone. Calmer. More open. Less performative." And sometimes, that internal shift is enough. Not to “manifest” a person but to make dating feel human again. He also revealed the 5 crystals that can help you manifest your dream date.
Chrysocolla
Chrysocolla is for people who feel deeply but don’t always say things easily. If you’ve ever walked away from a date thinking, “I wish I’d expressed that better,” this stone helps with exactly that. It doesn’t make you talk more. It makes you talk truer. People often notice that conversations feel calmer around Chrysocolla energy. There’s less nervous filling of silence, less over-explaining. You say what you mean, and somehow it lands better. That alone can change how a date unfolds.
Lapis Lazuli
Lapis Lazuli doesn’t work on attraction the obvious way. It works on self-respect. When you carry it, there’s a subtle grounding that happens you’re less eager to impress and less afraid of being judged. On dates, that shows up as quiet confidence. You listen better. You respond instead of reacting. You don’t rush to prove anything. And that steadiness is something people feel, even if they can’t name it. It creates a sense of trust very early on.
Pink Citrine
Pink Citrine is underrated, especially for dating. It brings lightness. Not excitement, not intensity lightness. If you’re someone who tends to take dates very seriously or subconsciously puts pressure on outcomes, this crystal helps soften that edge. You smile more easily. You’re more playful. The interaction feels less like an evaluation and more like an experience. Dates go better when you’re enjoying yourself instead of analysing every signal, and Pink Citrine supports that mindset.
Pink Carnelian
Pink Carnelian works at the level of comfort with desire. Not dramatic attraction, not obsession just a warm, grounded sense of “I’m allowed to want this.” If you’ve had a break from dating or you’ve been emotionally guarded for a while, this stone helps you reconnect with that part of yourself gently. On a date, it shows up as natural warmth. You’re present in your body, not stuck in your head. That presence is often what people describe later as “chemistry.”
Rose Quartz
Rose Quartz gets dismissed because it’s popular, but popularity doesn’t make it ineffective. Its real role in dating is emotional safety. It helps soften old disappointments, past rejections, and subtle defensiveness we don’t even realise we’re carrying. When you feel emotionally safe within yourself, you give others permission to relax too. Dates feel kinder, slower, more human. Not every interaction turns romantic but the good ones feel real, and that’s the point.
