Why Friendships Fade?
Friendships, like the monsoon, can be unpredictable. Misunderstandings, differing life paths, or unspoken betrayals can lead to drifts. Think of it as
a slow fade, like a classic song on the radio. One day, you’re inseparable; the next, silence reigns. These unspoken issues are very important.
Acknowledge the Silence
The first step is acknowledging the gap. Recognize that something shifted, similar to how you might realize the delicious paratha you ordered is missing a key ingredient. Don't ignore the void. Acknowledge the lack of communication, the silence, the changes, and how you feel about it.
Reach Out Gently
Consider a simple 'hello'. No grand gestures, just a friendly message or call. Remember, it's like offering a cup of chai – a small act that can spark a connection. Keep the tone light and open. Ask how they are, and share something about your life. If it does not feel right, then respect it.
Find Common Ground
Look for shared interests, like your favourite Bollywood movies, or even a shared memory. Recalling positive times helps. Perhaps you both love the same street food vendor or went to the same college. This helps to unlock memories. This is about rebuilding your connections with these commonalities.
Forgive and Understand
Understand that both parties might have evolved. Forgiveness is crucial. It's like the final scene in a movie. Letting go of the past hurts can free both individuals. Focus on the present and future, and remember the good times.
