Redefining the Updo
When we think of a 'formal' updo, images of sleek, tightly pulled chignons or perfectly structured French twists often come to mind. These styles are about precision and polish. A romantic updo, by contrast, is defined by its softness and imperfection.
The key is to create a look that feels lived-in and effortless, even if it took a bit of planning. Think less ballerina, more fairytale heroine. The signatures of a romantic style are texture, loose face-framing pieces, and an overall 'undone' quality. It’s about creating a shape that moves and breathes, suggesting a beautiful style that looks like you could have swept it up yourself.
Start with the Right Foundation
A successful romantic updo rarely starts with freshly washed, silky-straight hair. In fact, second-day hair often provides better grip and texture. If your hair is clean, create a better canvas by spritzing a texturizing spray or a light dry shampoo from roots to ends. This will add volume and a touch of grit, making it easier to pin and style without everything slipping. If you have straight hair, consider adding some soft waves with a curling iron before you begin. This pre-styling step builds in the movement and dimension that are essential for achieving that soft, tousled finish.
The Effortless Low Chignon
One of the most versatile romantic updos is the low messy chignon or bun. This style sits at the nape of the neck and is all about looking artfully tousled. Gather your hair loosely at the back of your head, twist it into a bun, and secure it with pins. The trick is to not overthink it. Once it's secured, gently pull at the bun to loosen it and increase its size. Most importantly, pull out a few face-framing tendrils and wispy pieces around the hairline. These small details are what transform a simple bun into something truly romantic.
Incorporate Whimsical Braids
Braids are a fantastic way to introduce texture and a bohemian, romantic feel to any updo. A crown braid, which wraps around the head like a halo, is a classic romantic style perfect for weddings or garden parties. You can create one thick, chunky braid or two smaller ones that meet in the back. For a simpler take, incorporate a small braid into a low bun or twist. You can braid a section of hair before wrapping it into the updo, or create a small accent braid that you pin over the finished style for a touch of intricate detail. The plait adds visual interest and breaks up the solid shape of a traditional bun.
Choose Your Accessories Wisely
The right accessory can elevate an updo from simple to stunning, but the choice of accessory also helps define its tone. For a romantic feel, opt for delicate and nature-inspired pieces. Small, fresh flowers, pearl-tipped bobby pins, or a fragile hair vine woven through a braid or bun can add a touch of dreamy elegance. These are softer and more organic compared to the large, geometric, and heavily jeweled clips that often accompany more formal hairstyles. Even a simple velvet or silk ribbon tied around the base of a bun can add a soft, romantic touch.
















