Every relationship is maintained on the basis of some unsaid rules, and friendship is no different
Friends are the family you get to choose, but unlike family, where reconciliation, in case something goes
wrong, happens in an easy way, friendship is a different ballgame. With friends, it is slightly tough, given that friends are usually of a similar age, and a clash of egos can occur. Therefore, maintaining a friendship is one of the most challenging tasks in the world.
This Friendship Day, we have compiled some of the unwritten or unspoken rules that everyone should follow to maintain a healthy and lasting friendship. Yes, it is true that no friendship is without a few fights and arguments, but there’s a line that must be drawn to ensure the friendship stays forever.
Filter your honesty
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It is said that in any relationship, honesty is the key. However, honesty sounds good as long as it doesn’t insult the person on the receiving end. Therefore, be honest with your friend, but in the process, refrain from saying words that may insult or hurt them. If that happens, a time will come when they will start hiding things from you.
Don’t take your friends for granted
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Friendship, like most relationships, is based on the principle of take and give. It could be anything ranging from emotional support to financial help. Therefore, if your friend stands with you through thick and thin, they expect the same from you. Don’t expect them to stay with you in your tough times if you cannot do the same for them.
Don’t pull down your friends
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Never pull down your friends in front of strangers or people who are not a part of your friends’ group. Joking or roasting a friend is fine as long as they are okay with it, but it should never happen in front of strangers or people who are not part of your friends’ group.
Don’t fight for money
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Whether you lend some money to your friend or you lend your car that ends up in a crash, never fight with your friends for money. It is better not to share your prized possession with them rather than lending it to them and, in case something goes wrong, fighting with them for the repair money. Remember, your friends will not intentionally damage your car or laptop. In case they are in financial trouble, they will borrow money from you and repay it on time. If they don’t, walk away if you don’t want to keep the friendship, or just let it go; an ugly fight is not required.
Give them space, stay in touch
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If you are in a romantic relationship with somebody, it is obvious for you to make that person your priority. However, this doesn’t mean you will forget or ignore your friends. If your friend is dating, you must give them space. Never ask personal questions until your friends begin sharing with you.
Are you okay?
Last but not least, remember to ask your friends if they are okay. We do everything from watching movies to going on motorcycle rides and helping each other out. But we often forget to ask this simple question—‘Are you okay?’ This Friendship Day, ask your friend, ‘Are you okay?’
